Let It Go.

Definately my words for 2013.  "Let it Go"  The thought of living the rest of my life carrying all this baggage around with me is definately not liberating or exciting at all.  Why do we carry things around with us that we dont even need, as in material possessions, thoughts, negative memories, etc.  The trick though is to know how to let it go.  

Well if it makes us feel uncomfortable, our heart beat faster or any negative feeling then try realise how meaningless it is to hold on to it.  Our ego wants us to carry this around so that we can prove we are right, that we are entitled to feel like this.  We maybe need to just take one issue and work on that one thing, maybe it is a person that really irritates and drains you when you are in their company. Next time you are in their presence understand that they are on their own journey and you dont need to take any responsibility for it, let it be their journey.  Listen to them without any attachment, just listen then LET IT GO. Let them be in their own space and stay in yours.  Feel the love for both of you or in the situation.

By the end of 2013 I would love to have mastered letting go, which means that I have to look within and realise my journey is going to take the route of whatever I allow myself to hold onto.  So here goes to understanding and realising what I need to Let Go Of.  Then let go with love.

TIME OF CHANGE

TIME OF CHANGE:

Today is the day that I have decided to stop taking my medication for thyroid and cholesterol.  I am going to exercise and make sure I am on the right diet.  I am so tired of the subtle side effects, that do actually play a big part in my life.  2013 is a year for looking after myself, my pathway and my soul and I know that once I have these things in order I will be able to really help those around me to find their health, happiness and pathways.

I am really enjoying taking photos and am now learning to add text.  The one on the left is for a road sign for the Sanctuary that I run and the one on the right is one that I have done for the Soul Sanctuary facebook page.

Three photos that I saw on the internet and just had to share as I think they are so amazing.  

humour and happiness

Spirals

Just simple everyday life, in the most beautiful colour.

re-invention.

I don't normally like to take other peoples pictures and creative ideas and use them on my blog page, but if I don't take the credit and just copy them for more people to see because I think they are so amazing, then I tell myself that it is OK.  Unfortunately, I do not know whose name to give the credit to, sorry.

DDD

If you have a vision for your life, you need to take control and guide your life in the direction of your vision.  If you are whimsy and non committal you cannot expect your vision to take shape.  People always want to part with their ideas of life onto us and it is so easy to go along and get caught up in someone else's vision in life.  Sometimes it just feels easier to go with someone else, but at some point we need to come back to who we are and what we want in life.

Believe in yourself always, move forward towards your goals.  If  you don't have a goal you have nothing to move towards.  Have long and short terms goals, short terms like little stepping stones, so that you can see some achievement.  Be excited about your goals and never view them with any negativity they are positive milestones in your life.

FLOW AND RELEASE

It is so amazing how  when you go with the flow and release any desired outcomes, how things change to your highest good without you even having to work hard at it.  I am now running the Soul Sanctuary and have half shares in the one esoteric retail shop inside the Soul Sanctuary.  I could not have planned that, but I am absolutely loving the way it has worked out.

It is so funny, now that I am happy that I am going to be staying in Durban for a while longer  I pick up a book to read and it is about how Durban is going to have tsunamis and is a real hotspot for earth changes and that it would be better to move further inland.  It is so important to be able to live each moment fully and enjoy it, if we could be so totally in the moment then when we move to the next moment we will not take anything forward with us because with have dealt with everything in that moment.

Life Changes

Whew, you know life how it can all just change in a moment.  Well my life seems to be at one of those crossroads at the moment, I mean my husband has sold his shares in his business and now a year later wants to change direction.  I have mostly been a city girl, living in the city or just on the outskirts and except for a brief three year inland stay in my early twenties, have always lived right near the beach.
 

Well now my husband Dave, who I think is a bit of a visionary, has decided that we need to go and live on a farm, a huge farm with water and trees.  He thinks he has now found this farm in another province at least a two hours drive from any sort of beach, half an hours drive from the nearest village, which is tiny tiny, and two hours drive to the nearest city.  It has a working forest and sawmill and a rather large river running all the way along the one boundry within the farm.  It is also huge huge huge.  I have also always been used to a tropical climate, which I absolutely love and the climate at the farm is quite a dry one.  Talk about life changes and am I scared, yes hell I am.  It means leaving my children, my friends, my business, my comfort zones and going into totally unknown terrority. At least it is not a cattle farm so there will be no slaughtering of animals, which he would not do anyway, I just have to see about cutting down trees, I love trees (maybe I can go and save them).


Am I going to do it.  Well someone has just out of the blue with no planning on my part, just taken over my shares in the business and we are going down to the farm for 10 days next month to have a look.  All I am trying to do is stay with the truth of my soul, to find the alignment with my soul and to have an open mind.  When you are walking your spiritual path you have to be open and flexible and try see the bigger picture with no attachments to any outcome. To realise that going for a walk on the beach every day if I want to, doing yoga and tai chi classes, to having this convenient lifestyle - is that wrong - I will have to discover different ways of exercising, different walks to take.





I think my lesson here is to just live for the day and not start worrying about what my future might be like.  To plan properly and go down and have a look at the farm, area etc, with the excitement of  going on a new adventure and not to close myself off from any experiences I might have or wonderful people I may meet.

Beautiful city lights have something so magical about them, they really bring out an excitement in me.

The most beautiful wonder in life for me is the sea.  It has its own life, its own moods, its own destiny and heals the whole of humanity by just being what it is.